Idiom
Spill the tea
To spill the tea means to share gossip or juicy, private news about someone.
How people use it
It is modern slang, very common online and among younger speakers: "Okay, spill the tea, what happened at the party?" You can also ask for "the tea" on its own: "What's the tea?" It looks like the older spill the beans, but there is a difference: spill the beans means revealing a secret, often by accident, while spill the tea means happily passing on gossip. It is playful and very informal, so keep it for friends and social media. Some people write it as spill the T.
Also said: what's the tea, spill the T.
Examples
- As soon as Maya sat down at lunch, her friends said, "Spill the tea about your date."
- My cousin always spills the tea on who's dating whom at family reunions.
- The comments under the video were full of people begging her to spill the tea.
Where it comes from
In the late 1900s, tea or T was slang for gossip or the truth in Black drag and LGBTQ communities, especially in the American South. Some say T stood for truth, but that is not certain. The phrase spread through drag culture and then social media in the 2010s, when spill the tea went mainstream. It probably borrowed the shape of spill the beans.
Check yourself
1. If a friend says "Spill the tea," what does she want?
Answer: The latest gossip. Spill the tea is slang for sharing gossip or juicy news.
2. How is spill the tea different from spill the beans?
Answer: It means sharing gossip on purpose, not revealing a secret by accident. Spill the beans often means an accidental reveal; spill the tea means gladly sharing gossip.
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